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Moms Talk: What If Your Kid Doesn't Want To Go To College?

Would you be OK if your child went blue collar?

 

Each week the Mentor Patch Moms Council answers a question on parenthood posed to them by readers or another member of council.

This week's question: This week's question comes with a bit of a preamble. Ohio Lt. Gov. Mary Taylor was recently in town to talk to members of the Mentor Area Chamber of Commerce. The biggest topic of discussion was workforce development for manufacturers.

The manufacturers said, despite paying well and offering stable jobs, they could not attract younger workers because so much emphasis is put on going to college and getting a degree. So my question is this:

How would you react if your child/grandchild told you that they didn't want to college and, instead, they were interested in working in manufacturing or another blue-collar trade?

Donna Milnes:

As higher education is out pricing itself and jobs are not plentiful even with a degree, I think more young people will be looking at alternative ways to earn a living.

I always say to my kids and grandkids, "Whatever you do, give it your best."

Manufacturing jobs have been sent out of the country in many cases but I think schools do an injustice to the kids that need to be schooled in the trades. There is nothing wrong with learning a trade and becoming good at it.

I always told my girls “not everyone will become a rocket scientist; the world needs garbage men too.”

Don’t get me wrong -- I think we all benefit from learning as much as we can, but there should be no negativity in not having a degree.

Mary Jo Stack:

No matter the path my kids want to take, they must receive some sort of secondary education.

Today's manufacturing jobs are very different from my fathers manufacturing job. Workers must have math and computer skills to run new equipment. I have already told my children that they must attend either a college, vocational training or apprenticeship program.

You cannot simply walk into a good job without some sort of training.

Devone Lansing:

I completely agree with Donna.

While I firmly believe in getting a good education, education itself is not the "be all, end all" that some in today's society seem to think it is.

If my kids end up in a manufacturing job or as a plumber or a welder or a carpenter -- it doesn't matter one bit to me. If they are HAPPY and fulfilled, them that's all I can ask or hope for.

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Tom Linsenmeier

5:39 pm on Thursday, April 19, 2012

I completely agree with Donna, Mary Jo and Devone. I'm a machinist, which does require some vocational and on the job training. It does not require a full college degree. I've taken some classes at lakeland, LOTS of on the job training, the Cannons Of Fredon internship at Fredon Corp. (Go visit their facebook page, I'll wait.) and lots of reading. I've been working at the same shop for 10 years, and for that entire time I have been the youngest person. No one is being pushed towards blue collar work when we desperately need it. My shop has positions open that we can't fill. No, you can't make doctor or lawyer pay scales, but I'm also free of student loans, own my own house and have a good truck. The kids graduating High School need to be told that while College is a good option, it is not the only option for getting ahead.

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Jason Lea

6:19 pm on Thursday, April 19, 2012

It's appropriate that you mention the Cannons of Fredon internship because Roger Sustar -- the owner of Fredon Corp. (for those who don't already know) -- is one of the most vocal people when it comes to the issue of workplace development in manufacturing.

kim

3:28 pm on Thursday, April 19, 2012

I have been questioning the value of college lately. If a person goes into debt that equals more than a full year or two of pay, is it really worth it. I think for some professions it is...but if what my child wanted to do was manufacturing or "blue collar" work, I would fully support him. He would probably end up ahead because those jobs pay fairly well and he wouldn't have college debt to pay down, so he could start contributing to his retirement sooner.

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Laurel

8:56 am on Thursday, May 10, 2012

There are abundant job opportunities in the trades for those willing to consider them. My husband has been a carpenter for 35 years and still says, "I can't believe I get paid to do this" many days. He also reads more books than I do and is deeply articulate, and I have a Master's degree. We've had a bias against the trades in this culture for too long, and we deprive young people the opportunity to work with their hands. If you want to see a program that give space for young people to discover what they're passionate about BEFORE the enormous investment in college, check out www.lagomlanding.org. We've started this program to help young people and their parents when the "acceptable" post-high school options aren't working for anyone.

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